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| A breathtaking first sight |
What makes a building iconic? The
first things that come to the mind of many when looking at Durham Cathedral are
a long history, religion, and its association with a globally renowned film
(i.e. Harry Potter). It ticks all three of these boxes neatly, so it’s no wonder
that thousands come each year to visit this architectural spectacle. But behind
all of these traits, there lies yet another reason, a more personal one to me,
which reinforces its true glory.
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| Heading towards the cathedral |
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| Our arrival |
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| Durham Cathedral (Hogwarts) cloisters |
That, my dear readers, is
university.
If you ever come across a Durham
student, I am sure that they will have no trouble in talking about our black
Hogwarts styled gowns. You’ll see these
worn mainly during formal dining events. The magic in them fades away after a
while (at least it did for me anyway). But there’s one moment in time that
still shines brightly within my memory. Like most universities, us first years
were officially welcomed by our institution’s chancellor (or principal) before
we embarked on our higher education journey. However, I daresay that not many
of you ever got attend such a ceremony dressed almost like the classmates of
Harry Potter. It was difficult to contain my excitement whilst waiting in the
cloisters of Durham Cathedral, especially after I realized they were the ones
used in first film.
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| Hogwarts moment before matriculation in year 1 |
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| The gangling freshman |
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| Exiting the ceremony |
And with the sounds of applause
signaling the end of the ceremony, my three-year adventure into academia
officially began.
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| A photo from year 2 |
As a student of anthropology, the
study of rites of passages was an inevitable topic (one of which I enjoyed
immensely). We were taught that these could be separated into three phases. The
first and third stages are both distinct, for they mark the entry into the
ritual and exit out of rituals respectively. No doubt that the two are equally
important. However, I would argue that the middle step, where one engages in a
series of activities that eventually leads to a transformed self, is perhaps
the most significant. My university journey echoed this strongly. Although I
knew I was changing for the better, there were times when I wanted to step back
and seek comfort from a nearby shelter (i.e. Durham Cathedral).
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| Durham Cathedral - graduation day |
It’s undeniable that every story
must come to an end. Even if we try to savor the last few pages of pleasure
through delayed reading, we’ll eventually have to reach the finishing sentence.
It’s a difficult moment, one of which was definitely applicable to my very last
time at Durham Cathedral. Not only did it mark my last visit, it also signaled the
end to my university journey. As I was called up on stage to officially confirm
my graduation, I felt a mixture of happiness at my academic success (especially
since my friends and family were there to celebrate it with me) and sadness at
departing. It was truly a bittersweet sensation.
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| A different view of the cathedral (year 3) |
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| The important white marquee (for grad merch + photos + food) |
Letting go is never easy, but at
times it’s for the better. Although my future lies unknown, I walk forward with
confidence, determination, and excitement.
Thank you Durham for making me
stronger and wiser. It’s been an absolute pleasure.
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| Pathway into the unknown but bright |
